Lent begins Ash Wednesday. What am I going to do for Lent? The supper table is a good place for asking that question , It represents life that’s closest to us here and now. Lent is about renewing ourselves as we are here and now. The people across the table where we live, or work or go to school with are a good start.
A scripture reading early on in Lent says: “Don’t turn your back on your own.” Have we turned our backs on those closest to us? Let’s start with paying attention to them. Lent is a time for renewing ourselves where we are, in real life and real time, with those who are “our own.”.
The Ash Wednesday scriptures say: pray, fast and give alms. Let’s pray with the church during Lent. The scriptures for each day are a good place to start. Here’s where you can find the Lenten scriptures. www.usccb.org
See what’s going on in the churches nearby. Pray with others. We don’t pray with others enough.
Fasting takes many forms. Lent is a good time to fast from our own hard opinions of others. Too many people seem to be spoiling for a fight these days.
Can I give something to someone, maybe my time or attention. Can I give to some good cause?
Let’s keep before our eyes the terrible sufferings going on in our world today, but let’s see them in the light of the great mystery we celebrate: the death and resurrection of Jesus. Keep his Passion in mind. He gives us new hope.
Let’s not forget something else, though. What’s God does during Lent. That’s important. Lent is a time of God’s grace, an “acceptable time” when God pours out grace for us and the world we live in. The great sign of God’s limitless love is the Passion of his Son, a wondrous love beyond all others.
The Victor's Place 
How can we do any better. You are always right on and we can be, too. Thanks seems such a poor word. Amen and a last Alleluia………….for a time…………
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Very helpful… wish I had read it when you first posted it, but it’s still timely three days later (I get behind in my reading). 🙂 Great post!
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Susan,
That’s why lent is 40 days. We need a lot of time.
FV
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Fr. Victor, thank you for what you wrote. My church does not officially observe this tradition but I started doing it some years ago with the support of a few close friends. I have found it to be a great way to identify with the loving sacrifice of Christ in a small way by pledging my own small sacrifice to him. It may seem silly to some, but I have been fasting from Coffee (something I treasure) for a few years and I dedicate my coffee breaks to reading/praying/contemplation/praising/serving.
Also, last year I was challenged by a good friend to try fasting from sarcasm (this suggestion shot me through the heart as I realized my friend was speaking the truth in love). While I don’t think I could possibly go 40 days fasting from sarcasm… I’m going to try some smaller periodic fasts to see if I can suspend my sarcastic nature and remain as genuine as possible in my thoughts and words. I’m honestly not sure how successful I will be with this fast, but I’m hoping Christ will accept my attempted sacrifice and draw me closer to him.
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Father V, for Lent, rather than focusing on what I’m giving up, I’ve decided to focus on what I’m trying on: Curiosity – the risk of opening up to another. And now I’m beginning to see that this could lead me to give up pretending to know it all, condemning another for being different, and being blind to the needs of my neighbor. Thanks for being a vessel for the Holy Spirit.
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You’re right, there are more ways of fasting both of mind and body, and the Lord recommends all of them. May this time be blessed for us all. FVicto
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Fr. Jim’s suggestions made a lasting impression on me. I pray with them
every Lent. Gloria
Lenten Quiet Weekend Suggestions
+Consciously look for beauty in nature every day and thank God.
+Be conscious of negative thoughts; they make prayer and love difficult.
+Show and express appreciation to others every day.
+Flow with conflict and accept suffering as a path to change.
+Forgive others each day and let go of grudges.
+Share frustrations with a friend.
+Avoid worry and trust God.
+Put the past to rest. Be present to the here and now.
+Say the Lord’s Prayer to remember God’s will in preference to your
own.
+Remember God is always present.
+Look for ways to serve others throughout the day.
+Be interested in and care about people regardless of your past history
with them.
+Remember you can only love what you can appreciate.
+When you experience disappointment, think positively.
+Listen to the Spirit and ask God to let grace lead you to what God
wants you to do.
+Remember all things that happen are for your growth.
+Trust in God to guide your life.
+ Make an effort to think with your heart as well as your head.
+Slow down – remember to pray and read.
Fr. Jim Calderella
St. Joseph By the Sea
March 11, 2001
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Good lenten advice, Gloria.
FV
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